LET BYGONE BE BYGONE

There is an incident that triggers me to write on this theme: Let bygone be bygone. After a month plus living in this city, I finally came to know that actually there are lots of “things” happened here among the M community, some of which are good but some are really... As a newcomer, I did not expect that I need to know much about it. What more important is that, what has happened, has happened. That is it. None of us can turn the clock back to the past. That event is already happened. It is a past. Thus, no matter how bad it is, I do not think that anyone of us (including me) should feel sensitive about it. Instead, we should look and think about it positively for the purpose to learn from the mistake and perhaps to be a better person. There is no use to keep the hatred in our heart. It is a total useless to condemn people about the mistake he/she had done in the past. Let bygone be bygone. Why can’t we be forgiving to each other? Forget the past, and let’s start a new episode. Isn’t it more beautiful to live peacefully and harmony without keeping any hatred or jealousy or negative perception towards other? We know that nobody’s perfect so why do we expect that someone should not make a mistake. Everyone makes mistake in life. But you see, Allah, the Most Merciful, the Most Benevolent, always listens to our prayers, and always forgive our sins or wrongdoing. Who are we if we’re not able to forgive people?? Let us now forget the past, learn to forgive and forget. Open our heart to accept if someone were to change to become good. Try to give a chance. Throw away all the egoism since it never gives any benefit at all. Be honest to yourself and to others as well. Be good to people and you will see that many people appreciate you for your kindness. It is so simple yet it is hard to implement one if we keep that hatred in our heart. Take the first step which is purifying our heart to see the truth and to seek only the truth.

Jazakumullah…

p/s: “Dilla, Dzun, Chea, Tikah, Noy, Ekin…you’re the most wonderful housemate I ever had.. I really miss those time when we’re together..”